MORE ON LEARNING ENGLISH-(MOLE) from a well-wisher to my dears.

KNOW YOURSELF 

FIRST.

WHAT ARE YOUR 

STRENGTHS ?

HOW YOU INTEND

DEVELOPING THEM?

ESPECIALLY

TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE ALL AROUND YOU?

THEN THINK OF THE WORLD IN GENERAL.

HOW  YOU CAN BE A GOOD LISTENER AND GOOD  CONVERSATIONALIST?

HOW YOU CAN MAKE A LASTING FRIENDSHIP?

DO YOU CRITICIZE,CONDEMN AND COMPLAIN MORE

OR YOU APPRECIATE THE EFFORTS OF OTHER PEOPLE?

IF SOMEONE DOING A FAVOR FOR YOU,

DO YOU TAKE IT AS A MATTER OF RIGHT

OR APPRECIATE AND THANK HIM OR HER?

DO YOU KNOW THE SIMPLE COURTESIES LIKE:

THANK YOU, 

THANK YOU VERY MUCH. 

IT'S VERY NICE OF YOU.

IT'S VERY KIND OF YOU.

IF YOU PLEASE.

I AM SORRY.

PLEASE EXCUSE ME.

MAY I HELP YOU?

 I APOLOGIZE.

COULD YOU PLEASE?

WOULD YOU MIND?

DO YOU ACT AND BEHAVE AS IF YOU ONLY KNOW

EVERYTHING AND THE OTHERS ARE FOOLS?

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE EITHER WITH SOMEONE OR IN A GROUP?

DO YOU READ ANY GOOD BOOK EVERYDAY?

DO YOU PRACTICE THE PRINCIPLES YOU LEARN?

DO YOU HAVE THE HABIT OF REFERRING TO THE GOOD

ENGLISH/ ENGLISH DICTIONARY?

DO YOU AT LEAST TAKE THE EFFORT TO PLAY THE GAME WITH YOUR FAMILY, THE SCRABBLE, THE CHESS,

THE CAROM BOARD AND FINDING THE CITIES,COUNTRIES, SEAS, OCEANS AND OTHERS

IN THE ATLAS.???

DO YOU PRIORITISE  YOUR JOBS, DO YOU SEGREGATE

YOUR DUTIES, DO YOU WRITE IN A SMALL NOTE BOOK

THE TASKS TO BE DONE EVERYDAY AND DO YOU FOLLOW AND FINISH THEM AT THE EARLIEST 

OPPORTUNITY.? 

DO YOU HAVE ANY HOBBY TO RELAX AND REFRESH?

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO GET THE JOBS DONE IN A SMOOTH MANNER AND GET ALONG WITH WORKERS

IN AN AMICABLE MANNER?

WHAT IS YOUR AIM, OBJECT,GOAL, TARGET ?

DO YOU KNOW YOUR DESTINATION?

ARE YOU IN THE HABIT OF SHOOTING IN THE DARK?

ARE YOU LAZY, LETHARGIC AND HAPPY GO LUCKY PERSON?

WHAT ARE YOU CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAMILY, FRIENDS AND THE SOCIETY?

ARE YOU HAPPY WITH THE LIFE YOU ARE LEADING NOW?

WHAT EFFORTS ARE YOU TAKING TO IMPROVE YOURSELF IN PUBLIC RELATIONS AND GETTING ALONG

SMOOTHLY WITH THE PEOPLE, CUSTOMERS AND FAMILY?

DO YOU WEIGH THE PLUS AND MINUS POINTS,

FOR AND AGAINST POINTS, ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF ANY ACTION.?????

DO YOU THINK. PLAN,DECIDE ,ACT AND SUCCEED.

DO YOU ALWAYS TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED?

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO RELAX AFTER COMPLETING EVERY IMPORTANT TASK?

ARE YOU PUNCTUAL IN ALL YOUR WORK?

ARE YOU IN THE HABIT OF KEEPING UP YOUR PROMISES?

IF NOT CONVENIENT AND POSSIBLE, DO YOU HAVE

THE SIMPLE COURTESY TO INFORM IN ADVANCE

YOUR INABILITY TO PERFORM OR DO THE THING

WHAT YOU ARE EXPECTED TO DO?

ARE YOU GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL TO ALL AND

ESPECIALLY TO  GOD , YOUR PARENTS AND TO THOSE

WHO HELP YOU, ASSIST YOU???

ARE YOU HAPPY AND DO YOU COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS

INSTEAD OF GRUMBLING AND GROANING?

WHICH ARE THE ONES ,WHICH GAVE YOU MORE SATISFACTION AND HAPPINESS TILL NOW?

ARE YOU IN THE HABIT OF THINKING AND IMAGINING

THE PLEASANT SIGHTS, THE PLEASANT INCIDENTS AND HAPPENINGS NOW AND THEN TO KEEP YOU PEACEFUL AND RELAXED?

ARE YOU IN THE HABIT OF HUMMING SOME SONGS AND ENJOY MUSIC??

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“I am convinced now that nothing good is accomplished and a lot of damage can be done if you tell a person straight out that he or she is wrong. 

You only succeed in stripping that person of self-dignity and making yourself an unwelcome part of any discussion.”

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